I bet God chuckles when he hears us say, “My spouse is most certainly going to be/have/… Ideally, our spouses are going to bring so much fresh and new ways of life that we haven’t even thought possible, those few things we would like now, seem to disappear or so ingrained into the person, that it can’t count. That person is going to be such a pillar in my life, I can’t afford not to.

Do you ever wonder if a young Jewish woman, whowas ABSOLUTELY sure her ideal husband will be as orthodox as her grandfather, could not, with an open-heart, fall in love with someone of a Hindu background?